Motivation for the “Working Mom”

I don’t care if you work part time, full time, every day of the week, a couple days of the week, only during the summers, only during the school year, or your job is solely to stay home and take care of your family…it is all work.

We all have a lot on our plates, and when talking with other moms, I realize how alike we all are. We all feel insignificant at times. There are time we can’t keep up. Times we are being pulled in a million directions. Times when we get in our own heads and second guess everything we are doing.

As a follower of Christ, I find that I am spoken to when it is needed the most. At a time when I am wondering if working away from the home is the right thing. Wondering if keeping my kids enrolled in day school is what is truly best for them. After all, most of my working goes to pay to keep them in school. We get a lesson plan sent home over the holiday to continue what they have learned during the week. They were highlighting Colossians 3:23 which says in whatever you to do, to work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters.

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It all hit me at once, right when I needed it the most. I realized that, although it is not ideal for everyone, my family is right where it needs to be. My kids are in a school that teaches them the love of Jesus. I am blessed to have a job that appreciates me, with a boss that walks with Christ, and understands that I am a Mom, and my family comes first.

I encourage you Moms, when you are at work and feeling insignificant, to remember that you are not here to please your boss. You are working from your heart for the Lord. When you feel like you are being tugged and pulled into a million different directions, just remember, the Lord intended for you to be caregiver for your family. You were made for this, and you have him by your side.

 

A letter to my Husband on our Fifth Anniversary

My Dear Husband,

How telling is it that, at this point in our lives, our anniversary has come and I have no card, or gift for you?

I spent my days working, and coming home and tending to the kids, and those days passed rapidly, and this day has quickly crept up on me. But you must know, that it is the furthest from the way I feel about our marriage.

I am so thankful for you. I am so appreciative that I have had the honor of being your wife for the past 5 years. I know that I am not the same person I was when we were first married, yet you still choose me. I know that my appearance is no where near what it used to be, yet you still choose me. I know I devote more time to our kids than I do on you, yet you still choose me.

I couldn’t ask for a better father for our kids, and the way I see you building Thomas the Train track on the floor with the kids, or helping Emmalynn “practice her pageant,” makes my love grow more and more.

The truth is, I love you more at 5 years than I ever thought I could love someone. Thank you for keeping God in our marriage, and instilling His ways into our kids lives. Thank you for never, ever mentioning how different my body looks since our kids. Thank you for being seen with me in public when it has been 3+ days since I have been able to squeeze a shower in. Thank you for working so hard for our family, so that we are never without. Oh, and thank you for giving in and not caring if I purchase some new Ankle Booties for the fall (even though in the past, you have claimed for them to be “Hideous).

I love you Boo, and I’m sorry, but I wouldn’t be able to fit all of this in a Hallmark card anyway. 🙂

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Day 2: 15 Random Facts About Yourself

Hello! Continuing this 30 day challenge today from Erin at A Welders Wife….I should be rewarded for going 2 days 🙂

So, here we go!

  1. I married my college sweetheart.
  2. My favorite restaurant was PF Changs, until we went back for my birthday and it wasn’t that great. Now, I don’t have one.
  3. My best friends are my sisters, and I am so lucky to have 2 of them.
  4. I love decorating the house, which is why I think I really like my job. I love pairing countertops, with tiles and splashes and colors and paint.
  5. I *may* have meant I love decorating Other Peoples Houses, because I only have a few things on the walls at my house.
  6. I have a Goldendoodle named Wrigley, and he is the absolute coolest.
  7. I have recently become a “Pageant Mom.” My daughter is loving competing in pageants right now, and I just love watching her shine so much.
  8. I competed in pageants as a child, but I was way too shy. I didn’t have the personality that Emmalynn has.
  9. I really love watching the Houston Astros, and it has become a family “thing” for us.
  10. I am currently growing a lemon tree, and am super excited about my latest bud.
  11. I order entirely too many things on Amazon Prime.
  12. I am an extremely overprotective Momma.
  13. My birthday was 3 days ago, and I am a little depressed about being 29.
  14. I married into a BIG family, and it is one of my favorite things.
  15. I am NO GOOD at keeping secrets.

30 Day Challenge

See you tomorrow!